Monday I went over to my neighbor's house because we were going to go visit another friend together. She was unable to go that night, so we set something up for the next day. I knew that she was probably busy later on, but I decided that I would still invite her to family night with us. She asked what it was. I explained a little about family night and she said that she was too busy tonight and wouldn't be able to come. I said "so you are busy today, but do you want to come another day?" She said yes she would. And you have to know that she really seemed genuine. She has told me yes, and no, so I know that she is telling me the truth when she says she wants to come.
So one more step forward to sharing more of the gospel with her. This is so exciting!
I also found out that this friend we were going to visit had previously invited her to the progressive dinner and to church in years past, but she was turned down. My neighbor said no and that she would be too uncomfortable. That really made me think about what she said to me the night of the progressive dinner this year... that she believed her eyes are opened to things now that they couldn't see in the past. I felt like that was signifigant, and feel like she is ready for more right now. She is ready to ask her questions, and it would be wonderful to help her find the answers.
It also made me realize even more, that it doesn't matter when people say no, or turn you down. You seriously don't know when you are planting those seeds. I know that my friend who invited her before was planting those little seeds, and little by little they have grown. I have been so grateful for that, and her efforts, so that now when I try to reach out, she is ready for a little more.
My Advice: Reach out to your neighbors, whether they are members of your church or not, they can become some of your best friends. It's so nice to have a close community and know the people that live around you. I have found that I have a lot more in common with my neighbors than I thought I might.
What will I do next?: Make Matt teach the family night lesson. :)
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